The Hygge of Movies

Last night I got to take my sons to the cinema. They’re hulking, massive grown up lads of 20 and 22. They tower over me, a fact they like to point out usually by standing on either side and lurking.

They’re one of my sets of cinema partners. I have a few, divided according to film genre and possibly time of the week. These two escort me to any superhero flick: Marvel, DC, Sony. If there’s a magical, mythical superhero element, then they’re the ones.

I have a daughter (18 next month) who is my chosen partner for romcoms, dramas, musicals and Disney. We like the local independent cinema, which serves Prosecco during the interval and has comfy red velvet seats.

My husband is my partner for heavy dramas. If it has a court room in it, is based on a John Grisham or has a newsroom, courtroom or confessional in it, he’ll watch it. I have other friends who I’ve been to the cinema with, but I’ve been film-watching with thi sman now for 30 years, so when he twitches I know whether he’s enjoying himself or not, needs a drink or just wants to settle down. That’s a useful shorthand to have when you’re trapped in the silent dark bubble of the cinema.

Because we all need to believe in movies sometimes

I find the cinema is the only way to get my concentration 100% on a movie. At home, I find I scroll, read, craft or do something else as well as watch the film. It’s a bad habit, I know, but one I’ve fallen into over the years. I remember fondly the days of Family Film Night, when we closed the curtains tightly, turned off all the lights and made our living room into a cinema just for the night. That said, I still find watching movies with my family is one of my favourite hygge activities. It’s probably our favourite thing to do on a Friday still, when we all flop into our chairs, nibble on the weekly treats allowance and watch a movie even if we’re also scrolling Insta, browsing the Puter or (as my husband often does) reading his weekly news magazine.

As part of my 2020 revamp, I’m aiming to do a monthly film post, reviewing just one film that for that month has given me a sense of hygge. I’ve got a few on my list already, and doubtless I’ll find more as the year goes by.  Today’s post is not about one particular film, but more a hymn of praise for movie magic as a way to bond.

If you’d like to make your home film watching a more hyggely experience, here are my top tips:

  • Keep the lights low, or as close to off as you can. That can be difficult if you’re eating supper at the same time as watching, but subdued lighting will help your watchers concentrate better, and complete darkness forces it. Home Cinema nights were a treat to my three, and one we’ve only recently fully come back to.
  • Choose the films well. With younger children, you may find yourself watching the same films again and again and again… now, with five adults in the house, we rarely rewatch a movie altogether, but seek out a new or new-to-us movie.
  • Some films defy age barriers and can enchant everyone. Paddington 1 and 2, Mary Poppins and Mary Poppins Returns and old favourites from your childhood can work as multi-generational nights because they have universal appeal. Find the ones for your family. In our house, it’s Princess Bride.
  • Heavy movies can work, but try to avoid deep political dissection unless that’s absolutely hygge for everyone in the room. A family movie night loses its hygge when there’s an argument about capitalism vs communism going on.
  • Keep snacks simple. You don’t want a complicated selection that requires cooking and would drag one of you away to check the timing every few minutes. Crisps, sweets, biscuits and cakes. If you’re healthy, fresh fruit, vegetable crudites and nuts work well. Or have a mixture. Life is all about balance, and a little bit of both is better.
  • Keep the room well-heated, or have blankets to snuggle under. We hadn’t actually blanket-snuggled and watched a movie together until Monday, when our heating konked out. Monday night we bingewatched an 8 part series, moving only for rest breaks and to fetch another cup of tea.
  • Have an intermission. Pause the movie halfway through, top up drinks, snacks etc and let everyone have a stretch and a comfort break.
  • Leave the credits running. It’s always been a bugbear of mine that there are a lot of people who work on a film who never get credit for all their work. Film scores often have overtures or specially selected songs running over the credits, and it’s also fun to see familiar names popping up (Mark Hamill’s assistant on Rise of Skywalker, for instance, was also called Hamill. Coincidence? I think not!) plus also , you never know when the name you learned by accident watching a movie might be the name that nets you a win at the local quiz.
  • Pause after the movie as well. It’s good to stop and appreciate the gift of film, rather than racing endlessly to fill every second with motion and noise. I think that’s where DVDs had the edge over streaming services, because you couldn’t just start another one without moving. It’s good to pause often in life, a chance to breathe, absorb what you’ve seen and give thanks for the ability to see it.

What are your top hints for a movie night? What are your top hygge movies? I’d love to know.

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2 thoughts on “The Hygge of Movies

  1. I don’t really go to the cinema, but love to curl up on the sofa with the dogs and watch a movie, or binge-watch some episodes of a favourite TV show. Sometimes hubby will join us, which makes a nice change, and I love when it happens, but mostly it’s just me and the dogs. What I watch depends on what’s in my to-watch pile, what I feel like watching, and whether I’m trying to tempt hubby to join me or am not bothered whether he does or not (he’s most likely to if there are vampires or superheroes involved in whatever I’m watching). If I’m looking for cosy familiarity though, my favourites to return to are “Practical Magic” the “Harry Potter” movies, and old Disney favourites.


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